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Stay Safe, Stay You: A Complete Guide to Digital Security for LGBTQ+ Communities

Gatherly TeamNovember 29, 202511 min read
Stay Safe, Stay You: A Complete Guide to Digital Security for LGBTQ+ Communities

Why Digital Security Matters for Us

Let's be real: LGBTQ+ people face unique digital security risks. From targeted harassment campaigns to outing attacks, from stalking by exes to discrimination if certain information becomes public—we have specific reasons to take online safety seriously.

This isn't about paranoia. It's about protection.

The Fundamentals: Protecting Your Accounts

Password Security

Use strong, unique passwords for every account. Use a password manager like 1Password or Bitwarden.

Two-Factor Authentication (2FA)

Enable it on every account, especially email and social media. Use authentication apps over SMS when possible.

Protecting Your Privacy

What You Share Publicly

Before posting, ask:

  • Would I be comfortable with anyone seeing this?
  • Could this reveal information about my identity, location, or relationships that could be used against me?

Location Privacy

  • Disable location services for apps that don't need it
  • Don't check in at home or frequently visited locations
  • Be careful about photos that reveal where you live

LGBTQ+-Specific Safety Considerations

Outing Prevention

If you're not out everywhere, be strategic about:

  • Separating personal and public accounts
  • Privacy settings on dating apps
  • What photos you're tagged in and where

Dating App Safety

  • Don't share too much personal info before meeting
  • Use the app's messaging until you're comfortable
  • Meet in public places first
  • Tell a friend where you're going

Dealing with Harassment

  • Document everything
  • Use block and mute liberally
  • Know how to report on each platform
  • Have a safety network

Creating a Security Routine

Security isn't a one-time thing:

  • Monthly: Review account security settings
  • Regularly: Update devices and apps promptly
  • When needed: Reset passwords after any concerning incident

Stay safe. Stay secure. Stay you.


What security questions do you have? Let's discuss in the community.

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